Runaways
Finding and recovering a runaway child depends greatly on the active and aggressive participation of the parent/guardian. Searching for your child may seem overwhelming and a parent will feel completely lost as how to search or where to start. Here are a few tips to help you start finding your runaway.
Make a list of all friends, associates and classmates, and start calling.
- Who is the boyfriend/girlfriend and where do they live?
- Let your runaway know that you are hot on their trail and are serious about finding them.
- Give the investigators last names, phone numbers and addresses
- Many runaways have been trained by other runaways and will tell your child to turn off their phone so contact cannot be made.
- The runaway may clear all telephone numbers from a cellular telephone databank so that you won't call their friends.
Keep track of who you have contacted, what they told you and when.
- Your runaway's friends will often hide the truth from you and investigators.
- Document the names of the parents and tell the parents that you absolutely do not give permission for your runaway to stay or live anywhere except home.
List all of the "hang outs" and activities of your child. You may know of several and the runaway's friends may give you more.
- Let the investigator know if the runaway has used or is using drugs.
- List what the runaway enjoys doing in his/her spare time.
- Tell the investigator if the runaway has talked about places where they had fun.
List what the runaway took with them.
- Changes of clothing.
- Food or money.
- Cellphone.
- Make-up or toys (tablet, skateboard, bicycle, etc.).
Check telephone, computer / Internet access.
- Check social media accounts and computer history. You may find, for example, that a bus ticket was purchased.
- Search for e-mail to friends and messages about running away.
- Check your long distance telephone log.
Check with the school and any employers.
- Get attendance history from your child's school.
- Obtain information from the school or the school security officer of your child's school friends that you may not know.
- Find out if your runaway is expecting a paycheck soon.
- Learn about any work associates.
- Find out about the runaway's work history, unexcused absences, etc.
Monitor your home.
- Many runaways will sneak home to steal food, money or get more clothing. Many times they don't come alone.
- Secure your home and know if the runaway has been there while you were at work or away.
- Call 502-574-7111 or the detective you are working with to notify them of the child's return. If your child was found and returned by any police agency, notify the detective assisting on your case.